Football- Politics-Anthem-Kneeling

After watching the national anthem for the Giants/Eagles game, and then hearing Judge Jeannine's monologue, I had no choice but to put on my consultant's hat and state what seems like a totally logical conclusion to the situation for everybody.

IF I WERE ADVISING THE PLAYERS would suggest that you decide what it is you are disappointed about and create you own list, then merge your list with the all the others list into a Master Team List. Then have EVERY PLAYER who wants to, sign the COMPLAINT LIST.

As each player writes out his list, they will discover that writing crystallizes thinking and it will provide each person who is taking a knee, with the opportunity to wisely think through their gripes. This will also enable individuals to determine if they are just following along or really have significant gripes.

The Master List for the NFL needs a significant name, like when Lincoln enunciated his Emaciation Proclamation. It becomes the official statement of the NFL and the players who sign it. Once the gripes are crystallized, then the players will be able to stand for the Anthem and we as a Nation can begin to remedy the challenges that surface in the Proclamation. One of the many reasons for the Proclamation is to set the stage for solutions. After all, it is pretty difficult to remedy the unknown. Ideally, each team creates their own List, and their may be one big NFL Proclamation signed by all the players from different teams.

IF I WERE ADVISING THE OWNERS it is already too late for the owners, who were not proactive way back last year. I don't follow this much, but I am willing to bet that some owners have said, there will be no kneeling, and some owners are no longer in control. For owners who have already said no kneeling, they have once again proven that being proactive is a far strategy than being reactive. For the owners who are now in a corner, I suggest you take a real close look at the aforementioned to the players. It is what I would do, and I see no other clean way to move towards solutions instead. The Team List is for local and state effort. The NFL Proclamation is for national. Note: If you are an "no kneel" owner, I suggest you do this too as you do not want your players suppressing all of this....get out and get on with life.

IF I WERE ADVISING THE LEAGUE would say, get it fixed soon. Over the last 5 years, your brand has lost tons of ground. Only advice is write up the rules and the consequences. How tough is it to go over every problem you have ever had, write what it was and then the consequences you want to impose. If things are in writing and the players and owner know the rules and consequences, things tend to run smoothly. If I were Roger Goodell, I would do this plan. It is an easy way to get out of the eye of the storm and put it all on the owners....which is where it belongs.

IF I WERE ADVISING PRESIDENT TRUMP many people do not understand Donald Trump. One of his roles is reversing political correctness. The things he is shaking up have been around in some form for awhile. They are not new to Trump. Trump is bringing much to a head. The wonderfulness of that is we can get some things fixed that have been broken to some degree for far to long. As to he said to NFL, wouldn't have used SOB, but guess what the conversation was about all weekend. Talking is first step is getting a solution.

Rarely do I write a long post as I like short ones. But this issue is truly impeding us and we need to remedy it. My contribution to this mess and individual lives are the In-Syncness books. It would be great if every owner and some of the players were familiar with the concepts. Start today www.insyncness.com/books Links to Amazon / B&N

Every Person's Greatest Challenge

THEMSELVES...Most every person has strengths and weaknesses. In the world of In-Syncness, we realize that the weaknesses are fueled by CONTAMINANTS that sabotage us in various and sundry ways.

If you are unaware of your contaminants and how best to detect and eradicate them, then you are missing out on concepts and processes that are designed to empower you to maximize as a participant in society. Your strengths have taken you to where you are now--you can go over the top by eradicating the contaminants that sabotage you in numerous ways that negatively impact every aspect of your career and personal life.

The following are direct quotes from any of the In-Syncness books:

• Each of us is laden with a unique array of folly/fear-based beliefs we call contaminants; when we are in-conflict, our contaminants influence our thoughts, attitudes, words, desires, and behavior.

• Contaminants are deceptions, partial truths, lies that became our truth when we failed to interpret various words or life experiences from a self-valuing or biblical perspective. All of us have a unique array of contaminants that are founded on our life experiences.

• Most of our contaminants are created during our formative years (conception to age six) when our ability to reason is not yet fully developed. Contaminates reside throughout us in our cellular memory; most likely in the meninges (membranes that cover the brain and spinal cord) as well as in the heart (sub/unconscious), and in the organ that is most impacted by the negative emotions that accompanies each contaminant.

• Each of us is blessed with a unique array of virtuous beliefs; when we are in-sync, our virtuous beliefs influence our thoughts, attitudes, words, desires, and behavior. If you are a leader, in spite of your contaminated beliefs, your virtuous beliefs have catapulted you into that position.

I am fully aware that you have learned much from your extensive on-the-job experiences as well as from various seminars, books and training you may have received through the years. In all likelihood all of that has greatly benefited you and helped shape your attitudes, perspectives, choice of words, people skills, and various other capabilities.

In spite of your success, my hope is that you are so intent on increasing your personal effectiveness to the next level that you opt to understand, identify and eradicate the various contaminants that are sabotaging you at various times, in various ways and in various circumstances. I can assure you that is a simple, painless process that yields massive dividends.

Take a minute and go to www.insyncenss.com/books immediately order the E-book In-Syncness the Key to Health, Peace, Joy, Prosperity. There are links to Amazon and B&N. $4.99

Once you read this book and respond accordingly, your personal effectiveness, choice of words, attitudes, perspectives and the manner in which you relate to others will be radically altered for the better. Then, it will be time for all of your friends

to read the In-Syncness book that is most appropriate for them.

Be Sure to Nip it in the Bud

A vital attributes of an In-Syncness person is the ability to recognize a pending negative event/relationship and “nip it in the bud”.
The Reason: It is easier to rectify (manage) a situation in its infancy (embryonic stage) than when it is majorly manifesting (in full bloom).

Over the years, I have seen countless instances when individuals have let things slide until the situation or relationship morphed into a major mess with negative repercussions for both parties, and often for countless others who were directly or indirectly associated with the issue.

There are numerous current events that verify the merits of nipping it in the bud, versus delaying and confronting the issue when it is in a far more difficult stage to resolve. The following are just a few; see how this applies to your world during the last 90 days:

Event: ISIS leaving Syria for Iraq.
Immediate Response: Nothing, simply monitor the migration.
Possible Immediate Response: When a large convoy of terrorist made their way across the barren land from their outpost in Syria to their arrival in Samarra, they were sitting ducks out in the middle of nowhere. The entire brigade could have easily been deterred/destroyed, and pinned in Syria.
Way Late Response: Confronting an enemy with tens of thousands of fighters who pose a major threat to all the people in the region and the world at large.

Event: China building up the Spratly Islands in the South China Sea.
Immediate Response: nothing, simply monitor the buildup
Possible Immediate Response: At the moment it became apparent that China was adding size to the land mass of the islands for military bases, park a war ship in the area and announce there will be no more building on the islands.
Way Late Response: Navigating a war ship within 12 miles of the islands to prove that the waters are international waters and freely navigable for all. Now that China has a major investment in the ground, and their prowess is at stake, it is likely they will fight harder to retain than they would have when it was just an idea.
 
Conversely there are current events where it is obvious the issue was nipped in the bud.

Event: Russian lands fighter planes in Syria.
Immediate Response: Practically the day after Russia landed fighter planes in Syria, Prime Minster Benjamin Netanyahu was in Russia conferring with Vladimir Putin regarding the ground rules in Syria. He nipped it in the bud.

Event: Lindsey Graham gives out Donald Trump’s cell phone number
Immediate Response: Trump nipped it in the bud by immediately recording a new answering message encouraging all callers to vote for him as President.

Long posts are not my norm, as I don’t like to read lengthy articles. Hopefully, the read went quickly for you and you can invoke a "nip it in the bud" mentality in your company / organization and all facets of your life.

Everything I write is always designed to inform as well as direct the reader to purchase and read one of the In-Syncness books. Rather you are a "nip it in the bud" type person or someone who hesitates to immediately confront the issues, both are a derivative of your chutzpah and style.

Brash people can always hone their skills and reticent people can always develop more courage. Check out In-Syncness books and find the one that is best for you at www.insyncness.com/books   There is also a link to Amazon and B&N

Words Create Consequences

5 Words That Work Against You...

A critical skill for personal and business success is the ability to say the right words, at the right time, in the right manner. Conversely, most people just talk, their speech is habitual and thoughtless, and they are usually void of any awareness of the impact and consequences of their words.

Words create impressions, set expectations and bring closure; there is a direct correlation between the words we use and the results we experience. This is true on the job, at home, and in every other facet of life.

Words Create Consequences: Larry Scherwitz, PhD; a research scientist at UC Berkley, studied six hundred men, two hundred of whom were suffering from heart trouble--the others were healthy. The study included recording the conversations of all the men. Afterwards, Scherwitz counted the number of times each man used the words I, ME and MINE. Predictably, the men who used I, me and mine the most, were the ones experiencing heart trouble. Suggest you take inventory of your words and adjust accordingly. Plus, inclusion always yields greater dividends.

Words Convey Meanings: A word that isn’t very communicative or appealing is AWFUL. As an adjective, it means “extremely bad, unpleasant, ugly.” Perhaps you can find a word or set of words to use in lieu of awful--that will better convey your intentions and help you become a more compelling communicator.

Another benefit from removing the word awful from your vocabulary is the possibility that you will never again use the word AWFULLY, when describing the thoughts, words or deeds of another. As an adverb, it is likely that awfully is more often misused than any other word. Here are a few examples with alternatives:

• She is awfully attractive…she is really/extremely attractive
• He is awfully good at football….he is phenomenal at football.
• They are awfully rich….they are exceptionally rich.
• She is awfully smart…..she is truly smart.
• He is awfully lucky …he is totally lucky.

Decide to banish awful and awfully from your vocabulary and stretch yourself into becoming a person who says what you mean, means what you say, and totally cares about the impact of your words.

In addition, start experiencing a life of In-Syncness. In the main book, there are several chapters that pertain to words and their impact upon the sender and the receiver.

Find the In-Syncness book that is best for you at  www.insyncness.com/books Links to Amazon and B&N are also at this site.

Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say

Your Choice of Words …I think, I feel, I believe, I know 

When it comes to you expressing your views and motivating others, your choice of words conveys your degree of assurances in relation to the contents of your statements. The most common range of words includes: think, feel, believe and know.

When you think this is the way to go, it leaves room for doubt. When you feel this is the way to go, it leaves a little less room for doubt. When you believe this is the way to go, it conveys confidence. When you know this is the way to go, it conveys assurance.

When a group of people are lost in the mountains, how comforting are the words, “I know the way back to camp.”

In most circles, we mostly hear, “I think” but rarely hear, “I believe” or “I know.” Start listening to the words used by others and note their countenance and the impact of their statements. Also, take note of your use of the words think, feel, believe and know; then implement the appropriate changes.

In today’s complex, challenging, competitive world, every word has significance and every word has a ripple effect. Much of the In-Syncness philosophy of life is based upon proper word usage, which is extensively detailed in the In-Syncness books which can be reviewed and purchased at www.insyncness.com/books  Links to Amazon and B&N are also at this site. 

How to Treat Psychological Reversal

A Google search will confirm that there are thousands of posts regarding Psychological Reversal.Conflict is our word for Psychological Reversal. If you are familiar with Psychological Reversal, then you know there are lots of complicated ways to treat it. Our remedy is to say 9 words...and immediately your inner being shifts from conflict (Psychological Reversal) to InSyncness.

In the In-Syncness books you will learn what causes reversal and how to live a life free of this sabotaging state of being. Order any of them at Amazon, B&N, on my Facebook, or at www.insyncness.com  

Get In-Sync

Get In-Sync
Faulty thoughts, words, behavior catapult us into conflict. One way to eliminate conflict and reestablish In-Syncness is to say the nine word  Declaration/Prayer as recorded in the In-Syncness books.

Stay In-Sync 
The best way to stay in-sync is to say the Prayer/Declaration dozens of times each day. In addition, the 31 Proclamations in the In-Syncness books, provide insights on how to rightly manage your thoughts, words, relationships, health and behavior. In Battle of the Seeds learn how to tap-out contaminates, the faulty beliefs/scripts that sabotage us and keep us from experiencing In-Syncness/success.

Spread In-Syncness 
Once you experience the positive benefits of a life of In-Syncness, we hope you will tell others. You can purchase books or get Epub download, or pdf at www.insyncness.com. E-books are also available on Amazon and Barnes&Noble.