Words Create Consequences

5 Words That Work Against You...

A critical skill for personal and business success is the ability to say the right words, at the right time, in the right manner. Conversely, most people just talk, their speech is habitual and thoughtless, and they are usually void of any awareness of the impact and consequences of their words.

Words create impressions, set expectations and bring closure; there is a direct correlation between the words we use and the results we experience. This is true on the job, at home, and in every other facet of life.

Words Create Consequences: Larry Scherwitz, PhD; a research scientist at UC Berkley, studied six hundred men, two hundred of whom were suffering from heart trouble--the others were healthy. The study included recording the conversations of all the men. Afterwards, Scherwitz counted the number of times each man used the words I, ME and MINE. Predictably, the men who used I, me and mine the most, were the ones experiencing heart trouble. Suggest you take inventory of your words and adjust accordingly. Plus, inclusion always yields greater dividends.

Words Convey Meanings: A word that isn’t very communicative or appealing is AWFUL. As an adjective, it means “extremely bad, unpleasant, ugly.” Perhaps you can find a word or set of words to use in lieu of awful--that will better convey your intentions and help you become a more compelling communicator.

Another benefit from removing the word awful from your vocabulary is the possibility that you will never again use the word AWFULLY, when describing the thoughts, words or deeds of another. As an adverb, it is likely that awfully is more often misused than any other word. Here are a few examples with alternatives:

• She is awfully attractive…she is really/extremely attractive
• He is awfully good at football….he is phenomenal at football.
• They are awfully rich….they are exceptionally rich.
• She is awfully smart…..she is truly smart.
• He is awfully lucky …he is totally lucky.

Decide to banish awful and awfully from your vocabulary and stretch yourself into becoming a person who says what you mean, means what you say, and totally cares about the impact of your words.

In addition, start experiencing a life of In-Syncness. In the main book, there are several chapters that pertain to words and their impact upon the sender and the receiver.

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Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say

Your Choice of Words …I think, I feel, I believe, I know 

When it comes to you expressing your views and motivating others, your choice of words conveys your degree of assurances in relation to the contents of your statements. The most common range of words includes: think, feel, believe and know.

When you think this is the way to go, it leaves room for doubt. When you feel this is the way to go, it leaves a little less room for doubt. When you believe this is the way to go, it conveys confidence. When you know this is the way to go, it conveys assurance.

When a group of people are lost in the mountains, how comforting are the words, “I know the way back to camp.”

In most circles, we mostly hear, “I think” but rarely hear, “I believe” or “I know.” Start listening to the words used by others and note their countenance and the impact of their statements. Also, take note of your use of the words think, feel, believe and know; then implement the appropriate changes.

In today’s complex, challenging, competitive world, every word has significance and every word has a ripple effect. Much of the In-Syncness philosophy of life is based upon proper word usage, which is extensively detailed in the In-Syncness books which can be reviewed and purchased at www.insyncness.com/books  Links to Amazon and B&N are also at this site. 

How to Treat Psychological Reversal

A Google search will confirm that there are thousands of posts regarding Psychological Reversal.Conflict is our word for Psychological Reversal. If you are familiar with Psychological Reversal, then you know there are lots of complicated ways to treat it. Our remedy is to say 9 words...and immediately your inner being shifts from conflict (Psychological Reversal) to InSyncness.

In the In-Syncness books you will learn what causes reversal and how to live a life free of this sabotaging state of being. Order any of them at Amazon, B&N, on my Facebook, or at www.insyncness.com  

Get In-Sync

Get In-Sync
Faulty thoughts, words, behavior catapult us into conflict. One way to eliminate conflict and reestablish In-Syncness is to say the nine word  Declaration/Prayer as recorded in the In-Syncness books.

Stay In-Sync 
The best way to stay in-sync is to say the Prayer/Declaration dozens of times each day. In addition, the 31 Proclamations in the In-Syncness books, provide insights on how to rightly manage your thoughts, words, relationships, health and behavior. In Battle of the Seeds learn how to tap-out contaminates, the faulty beliefs/scripts that sabotage us and keep us from experiencing In-Syncness/success.

Spread In-Syncness 
Once you experience the positive benefits of a life of In-Syncness, we hope you will tell others. You can purchase books or get Epub download, or pdf at www.insyncness.com. E-books are also available on Amazon and Barnes&Noble.  

In-Syncness the KEY to Everything You Want

AT EVERY MOMENT, regardless of race, religion or status in life, you are either in-conflict or in-sync.

When you are in-conflict, your heart and mind is compelled by SELF: the arrogant, selfish, defiant spirit of Me, Myself and I. When you are in-sync, your heart and mind are in alignment with Divine Love, the source of all that is good.    

Above all else, In-Syncness is a state of being and essential if you want to make beneficial changes in your choice of words, your attitudes, your desires, your behavior, your health, your relationships, your career, the amount of wealth you accumulate, and anything else you can think of.

Why is In-Syncness essential for these changes? 

Answer: When you are in-conflict, your contaminated beliefs prevail. When they dominate, the good that resides in you has an extremely difficult time manifesting. 

Note: At www.insyncness.com you can preview the Secular and Christian version of the In-Syncness books. E-books can be purchased on Amazon, B&N, Facebook. Epub downloads or pdf available at the website.